There are TOP 3 songs: "Aspanga qaraimyn", "Mariya Magdalena" and "Kyzyl orіk". These are the songs that have inconceivable power over people, even super-modern and sophisticated people dance during those songs.
Although, at the same time, everyone likes the loud sounding of songs from the TOP 3.
After event, Kazakh people can stay and drink tea at separate tables until the morning, discussing how the celebration passed.
Very often Kazakh talented children sing or dance. A pragmatic adult put dishes for money next to kids.
If the invitation indicates the time of the beginning of the event - 17:00, the guests will gather by 19:00, then they are almost not late.
When the toastmaster announces a short break in the program, grandfathers and old men gather either in the restaurant's terrace or in the corridor to play cards.
Although he can do it in advance.
Grandmothers and grandfathers say toasts, which lasts up to 30 minutes, then they give “bata” (blessings) and after that continue to sing a song in which there are 14 verses.
Moreover, the guests always know only two words — Zhar, zhar.
The cheerful presenter in the dress suit, who conducts competitions, tells a lot of anecdotes and jokes.
Guests become not very happy because they are not seated correctly or someone is not ready for the toast given.
For example, one of them is called "kalta" - when women sit at one table and divide jewelry, and at this time the male guests leave the room for a smoke break.
If you see that people begin to collect food from the tables or waiters begin distributing cellophane packages, then it means that end of the celebration is soon.
In order to conduct a real Kazakh celebration and call all close and distant relatives, friends and colleagues, Kazakh people need to take a loan.
The most important and inalienable attribute of any “Kazakh Toi”. It is always served at the first table. Salmon with rice served for the second table.
Taking out all gifts — on typical celebrations there are simple knickknacks: combs, scarves, ties, souvenirs, which can be, for example, in the form of a mini-dombra (national music instrument).